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Tuesday, November 02, 2004
To Forgive the Unforgivable
I've been following Dave's agony at BaldSarcasm.com.
It amazes me sometimes how two people who are meant to be together would choose to be miserable apart.
Dave insists what he did was unforgivable. It's now out of his hands. But truly, can't all things be simplified? At the end of the day, shouldn't it be love conquers all? It's just silly...this lack of communication.
But why doesn't common sense prevail? We make it harder on ourselves (myself included).
Why can't he (Dave's ex) lower his defences? Stop pointing the finger on who wronged who? Whether it be stubbornness, cheating, betrayal... I don't know what actually transpired. I am not trying to get involved. I shouldn't speak on a matter I know blankly of, but was it really that complicated?
These two love each other. So, I know things will eventually work out. But why prolong the agony? Or is time the magic ingredient that eventually brings people to their senses? But what if it takes too long? Becomes too late?
I understand time heals the wounds an unmentioned tragedy unearthed. But why will it take another tragedy [knock on wood] to reunite you two?
Please don't make it so.
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