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Monday, July 26, 2004
The Introduction of The Fetish Files
When I first started this blog, I've always wanted to talk about things that I find sensual and sexy. This is why I'm starting a new segment on the Shower Room with hopes that continuous discussion would be generated between my readers and myself.
A concern that I have is that this upcoming Fetish Files will turn into a tasteless raunchy smut talk when all I want is a candid, uncensored, and meaningful conversation about different approaches to our sensuality and self-fulfillment. But we're gonna have to see what happens. This is unchartered territory.
The Fetish Files will be updated on a regular basis based on the additions and suggestions from you, my readers. Perhaps we can BOTH teach each other a thing or two.
On the left hand column, there's a new segment heading with the different 'Fetish Files'. I plan on expanding on them very shortly. I'll post a first edition sometime this week. So, stick with me and let's make this interactive and fun.
Deal?
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I'm no Guru
I've received two emails in the last month asking me: 'Guru, what is your secret with men?'
I'm no GURU. I'm not fit to give advice on dating, on relationships, on men. What do I know? I still have so much to learn as a 26 year old living the single life. For me, the best sex, the most sensual kiss, the greatest love, the man of my life, is still far down in my future.
To answer the original question: I don't really have a secret. By far, I'm NOT a supermodel. But I will tell you my approach and that is to be honest with myself and with others. My reflection in the mirror? It took me two decades to appreciate and finally love what I see. I go by the concept that it's impossible for others to love you when you don't love yourself.
You'll be surprised how well guys respond to confidence with sincerity. Word of caution: Don't be boring. Branch out of the norm, relax, and take that risk. Let that devil out, and let him play a little. I mean... with being goody two-shoes, you're only inviting guys to be your friend, not your potential lover.
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Goodbye, my friend. I will miss your eloquence and your insight. I wish you happiness and love.
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